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WILL I BE HAPPY? QUE SERA SERA

For many who are contemplating divorce, the decision to leave a marriage or relationship happens over time. Weighing the pros and cons often comes down to the question: “will I be happy?”. A Harvard psychologist, Daniel Gilbert, has been studying … Continue reading

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HOW WIVES AS PRIMARY BREADWINNERS IMPACT ON DIVORCE

    According to the 2006 study Wives as Primary Breadwinners, by Deborah Sussman and Stephanie Bonnell, there has been an increase in wives as primary-earners in families between 1967 (11%) and 2003 (29%).  When wives are the primary-earners in … Continue reading

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Five Tips on Approaching Divorce/Separation in a Healthy Way

Want to have a healthy divorce/separation?  Here are some tips to get you on the right path: Don’t be afraid to get a handle on your family finances See professional help to tell your children you’re divorcing Educate yourself on all … Continue reading

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BEWARE THE LOLLIPOP SYNDROME

  Recent research on children revealed that they are more determined that others will profit less than themselves, even if they suffer in the process.  The experiment offered a child a choice between one lollipop for them and none for … Continue reading

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Toronto Star Article

  Check out Ellen Roseman’s Article Separation’s high cost: Spending cut to the bone  http://www.moneyville.ca/article/1270309–you-must-cut-expenses-to-the-bone-when-dividing-households (from yesterday’s Toronto Star online).  In this article Ellen interviews our very own Eva Sachs about her role as a divorce financial analyst and her advice for … Continue reading

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Another Hollywood “Grey Divorce”

    Although not headline news,  Danny Devito age 67 and Rhea Perlman age 64 announced they have separated.  Press notices refer to the couple as good friends and business partners.   Friends and associates are quoted as being ‘totally surprised’ … Continue reading

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Managing Expectations in Collaborative Divorce:

Divorce is often a stressful, difficult and long process; even the most agreeable spouses can take a while to work out an agreement that is suitable for all.  Here are some ideas to keep in mind to help you manage … Continue reading

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Going through a ‘grey divorce’ need not be so financially worrisome.

The article in The Globe and Mail this week, “Rising ‘grey divorce’ rates create financial havoc for seniors” by Linda Nguyen (http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/politics/rising-grey-divorce-rates-create-financial-havoc-for-seniors/article4553219/) paints a bleak picture for the rising number of those 50 and older who are separating or divorcing.  … Continue reading

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Nesting… is it right for your family?

Nesting, during the separation and divorce process, refers to the idea that children stay in the family home while the parents take turns spending time with the kids.  For example, the parents may rent an apartment where parent A stays … Continue reading

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Children of Grey Divorce

Divorce in your 50’s or 60’s means that your kids may be independent, or close to it and some may also be parents themselves. Research on adult children of divorce suggests that they are affected by conflict. Some may also … Continue reading

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